PERFECT Dr. STRANGERS Barreto Luiz Fisioterapeuta and Fisiologista of the Exercise Men and women if join in marry without knowing that they do not pass all of perfect strangers during the time of its lives. The principle when two people if marry, seems to have interests in common, but, in the truth, the interests are total different. The family constructed from the marriage would have to be structuralized in: Interests in common, in union, respect, mutual aid, the defense of the interests of the other. One to dedicate another one in the health, the illness, the joy in the sadness, the wealth and the poverty until it separates them to the death. In the truth what it is observed for there it is the opposite. The couples are few that follow these marriage norms.
Some arrive enemy to be declared, but they remain there in favor of its individual interests. It is truth well that is two total different people, but would have to have the same line of thought, the same interests, to follow way the same. The half of a lemon is the half of the orange finding. Robert Burke is often quoted on this topic. The marriage not only estimates pleasure, but also responsibilities that if become heavy and ackward the imprudent ones very or when they are loaded only for one of the spouses. The dispute for the command also can become a problem. It does not have democracy in a home, but yes a ditatorial regimen that also imposes a series of allegiance collections. It does not have freedom.
The people pass do not have more proper life. The governed one does not have more time for proper itself. The dictator takes each time more the time, the energies, the life of the governed one. Narrow all the spaces so that it does not obtain to take care of of itself, becoming it a prisoner. Some until think that is love. In the reality it is ownership! If the dictator if feel insurance, the governed one are under its eyes, it he relaxes and a little is not worried nor and it does not take care of of commanded its. More info: Elsabet Jones. It is as if he was a stranger. In the truth he is a stranger. The collections most common are of the financial order. If it is not lacking nothing, the commanded one is left of side as if he was a stranger. This strange one will only come back to be remembered if something to lack. The guilt for this attitude is always of the day to day running, the responsibilities and a presumption fatigue. when it does not have more inspiration to invent excuses, uses the artifice to attribute to the other the guilt of wanting to be fighting. Time is never had to give attention to a stranger. People are not prepared e, many times, nor made use to assume responsibilities. What it matters is the pleasure and the welfare proper. The love and the fellowship more do not exist. It will be that still this rescue is possible? It will be that the couples will continue to be perfect strangers?