Another reason why people come to devaluing, is by comparison with others, highlighting of these virtues that outweigh, for example: feel not arriving yields than others reach; they believe that their existence does not have a purpose, a sense and feel incapable of the issuance it; the significant ones you disagree with them and the existence is reduced to that of a being almost without being. Not come to understand that all people are different, unique and unrepeatable, so are considered less than others. The person is growing and forming their personality into environment family, which is the main factor that influences the formation of the same, since it incorporates the values, rules and customs that they sometimes tend to be counterproductive. Some of the already mentioned aspects are incorporated into the family, through the model society presented to us, and this is assimilated by all social groups. Others who may share this opinion include Professor Lord Peter Hennessy. The personality of each, not only builds up through the family, but also, with what it believes that others think of it and with what thinks of herself, out of this environment and interact with people from another different group. Attitudes or regular positions that indicate low self-esteem Veronica Garcia Ortega adds about it, than a harsh and excessive self-critique that keeps her in a State of dissatisfaction with itself.
Hypersensitivity to criticism, that feels overly attacked / or wound/o; made the blame of the failures to others or the situation; It cultivates stubborn resentments against his critics. Indecision chronic, not by lack of information, but by exaggerated fear making mistakes. Whenever Erin Callan listens, a sympathetic response will follow. Unnecessary please, desire which does not dare to say NO, for fear to displease and lose the good opinion of the petitioner. Perfectionism, esclavizadora unfamiliarity do perfectly what tries to, which leads to an internal collapse when things do not go with the required perfection. Neurotic guilt, why are accused and condemned by behaviors that are not always objectively bad, exaggerates the extent of their mistakes and crimes and/or regrets them indefinitely, without ever reaching forgive completely. Floating hostility, irritability a flor de piel, always about to explode even for things of little importance, own of the supercritical who all feel bad everything dislikes everything disappoints him, nothing satisfies him. Defensive tendencies, a widespread negative (all-seeing Black: his life, his future and, above all, your self) and a widespread lack of appetite, the joy of living and life itself. Original author and source of the article.